Friday, September 27, 2013

July 1, 2013 – Getting Started – Week 2 in Kuching

So, it was an awesome week.

We visited a lot of the members in our area and also went contacting a little. District Conference was this Saturday and Sunday and that combined with the bike situation meant that we didn’t get a whole lot done this week.

That’s ok though, we already have like 6 potential investigators and we will see this week if they become real investigators. We found most of them by going through an ancient list of numbers we found and calling them. We found the rest by actually talking to people.

Our area has SERIOUS problems with inactivity so most of our work this week was going to their houses and inviting them to the District Conference. Some of them came (for the first time in a year or 2 in some cases) so it was worth it.

It looks like Kuching will probably be the first stake in Malaysia, probably in the next couple years. Hope I get to see it.

So our area is pretty cool. 95% of our members and less actives live in 2 different kampungs. There are 2 different meanings for the word "kampung". When someone says they are going back to their kampung it means their home place. That could be downtown Kuala Lumpur or it could be a hut in the jungle 100 miles from anything. The 2nd meaning is basically a geographical area, divided by roads, rivers, economic situation, religion/race, etc. The 2 kampungs our members mainly live in are called kampung Kudei and Siol Kandis. They are both EXTREMELY poor. Like candle light, garbage all over, houses made of wood and sheet metal and cinder blocks. The people who live in them are mostly Ibans (probably what you were taking about mom, Iman is the Malay word for faith) with some other tribes thrown in.  Kudei is by the Sarawak River and is sort of in a swamp about 30 minutes from our house. Thus, all the walkways are elevated 2-6 feet off the ground and are extremely sketchy. I’ll send some pictures next time to illustrate (I don’t have any yet). Our Branch President, President Mobil lives here.

Siol Kandis is on the opposite side of the river about 45 minutes-1 hour away from our house. It is in a very hilly jungle type place. I do have some pictures of this one so I’ll send them to you.

Most of our area besides these places is Malay and Chinese. Malay= no contact. Contacting the Chinese is a pain. Either they completely ignore you, they pretend not to speak Malay or English (maybe they don’t, but almost all Chinese speak one the two), or they are very prideful, they say things like "can’t you see I’m Buddhist?" (if Buddhist) etc. We still contact those areas when we have time though, it’s just not our most efficient use of time so we do most of our work in the kampungs.

Bicycling is a PAIN. I haven’t seriously biked in a LONG time. It’s kind of dangerous here. There are a lot of cars and motos here. So if you want to get anywhere you basically have to act like a car. Most of the time you ride on the side of the road but if you want to cross a street you basically have to ride with the traffic and merge through the lanes across the road. No crosswalks. Can be pretty sketchy at times. It pretty much sucks. Our area is pretty flat, the thing that sucks is the climate.

Basically unless it’s raining or going to rain soon you start sweating in about 30 secs-2 minutes. I have never sweated this hard in my life. It’s like literally my whole body is just covered in water. It’s like I just came out of the shower. It’s like you step out of a pool and have rivulets of water running down your body and face. EVERY minute of EVERY bloody day. Almost every day it rains twice, usually in the early morning before we wake up and in the afternoon/evening. For instance the clouds were rolling in for rain when we went into the internet kedei (shop) it will probably rain on us before too soon. When it rains it usually rains for about 30 minutes to an hour HARD, like walking through water. Sometimes it comes back for a second shot about an hour later, usually much lighter though.

The clouds here are the most beautiful clouds I have ever seen. I’ll take some pictures and send them next p-day.

Elder Berger is from Utah, like 10 minutes from the MTC.

 
THE HOSE (I’ll try put it delicately, some of it’s impossible though)
I can’t believe I never told you this. In Malaysia/Singapore they don’t use toilet paper. They use a bucket and either a hand or scoop if they are poor, or a hose (sometimes the shower head) if they have money. Nice houses either have toilets or bidet (basically a toilet built into the bottom of your shower that you squat over). You use your LEFT hand to help the water if it’s sticky. When you have to go number 2 you just take off your pants and underwear and put on the communal shower sandals (or personal in the case of the missionary apartments). Believe it or not you become much cleaner using water than with toilet paper.

Personally I go either in the morning or night when I take my shower, much more convenient.

This p-day we went to the wind caves. TONS of bats. Awesome. No pictures, to dark.

Out of time dang it. I will write a letter, it should take a about a week and a half to arrive.

Elder Berger and I  
 
 
A sweet cloud formation
 
 
Kampung Siol Kandis
 
 
The inside of a durian fruit,

 

Elder Halpin

June 23, 2013 - Whooa, Made it to Malaysia - Week 1 in Kuching

So basically the computers here are super slow. No pictures this time. Pictures soon I promise.

Singapore was awesome!

Well first off flying pretty much sucked. Secondly when I went to grab my big suitcase there was a glop of yellow sticky stuff on the corner. Disgusting! Anyway I had to drag it into the bathroom to clean it. But the rest was cool. As soon as we came out of customs we met President and Sister Mains. They are cool. The airport has this leviathan, colossus, ginormous expo room. Anyway then we took the "subway" (it’s not all underground) called the MRT, to the stake center. We had a short devotional, personal interviews and then we went to a mission home and slept.

The next day we had some training and some other stuff.  Then we were told our assignments and who are trainers would be. As you know I was assigned to Kuching in Sarawok on the island of Borneo. My trainer is Elder Berger. He came on his mission straight out of high school and is actually 1 month younger than me. 

After we learned where we were going and such, we had like 6 hours before our plane left at 8 that evening. We took the MRT to go eat at this underground mall. I kid you not, a mall 5 stories underground. Anyway I’m so big compared to most of these people that I felt like I was either in peoples way or running into them 90% of the time. We didn’t have enough time to go see any other landmarks at that time though. Besides, people are burning jungle to make land for farming in Indonesia. Singapore and most of west Malaysia is covered in a thick, THICK haze of smoke right now. Apparently it’s the worst in like 40 years.

The plane flight was my worst ever. I swear, when the plane was descending the pilot was just reducing engine thrust then stalling the plane. We basically didn't fly in a straight line at any point of the decent. Up and down, up and down, over and over and over again. Then the landing, we bounced. I kid you not, we crow hopped.

Anyway, Kuching is awesome. Have you found it on the map yet? Aside from the bike situation everything is going well. I guess were going to take a bus into downtown Kuching and see the sights. Our washing machine is broken so I’m not really sure how we will be able to wash our clothes today.

We are whitewashing our area, basically our area (the Matang branch) was split into 2 areas when we showed up. The area we have has no investigators so we will be starting from scratch. Later today we will go looking for people for the first time.

Cleaning up with a hose after the bathroom is taking some getting used to.  The food so far has been a mixed bag. On Saturday we bought a durian fruit. It’s sort of awful. It has these big seeds inside covered in this stuff comparable to peanut butter with edible strings in it. It smells distinctly durian and you can smell it like 50 feet away. Its flavor is durian, and it stays with you for the rest of the day.

Yesterday we ate mi sedaap. It’s basically the top ramen of Malaysia. It’s not a soup it’s basically a bowl of spicy ramen noodles.

Interesting things:
  • So I can actually understand 50% of the things people say. It just takes me a few minutes to figure out what it means and answer.
  • One of the coolest things is that although Kuching is a huge city, any block that's not occupied by buildings is occupied by legit jungle.
  • You can buy the equivalent of an 8 dollar meal here for like 6 ringgit (2 dollars).
  • You can also buy an entire meals worth of boms (a curry roll with like meat and sauce inside) and curry puffs (small fried version {sort of} of a bom) for like 2 ringgit (60 cents).
  •  Geckos live in the houses like in Hawaii.
  • While the food is generally cheap, everything else is not.
  • The water here (we have huge in house filters) is disgustingly warm, the only way to survive is to put it into 11/2 liter soda bottles and stick it in the fridge.
  • 100 Plus and Revive (basically the Gatorade of Malaysia) are absolute deliciousness after the water.
Elder Halpin

June 23, 2013 – The Lowdown

Alright so here’s the deal.

I picked out a bike and went to the ATM to get the ringgit I needed. The ATM machine refused to do anything for me, it just spat out my card and a receipt. I know it worked, (I pulled cash out of my church sponsored card) and we tried a couple different banks ATMs. No banks are open here, (it being Saturday) and so we will have to walk home.

Anyway, on Monday I need you to talk to the bank and find out why the travel note didn't work. I tried going online but I seem to have forgotten my password. So if you could remind me which one that is, that would be great.

Email me if and when you do this.

Also my companion says it might be that the bank just won’t let me use an ATM, but that’s all I can use.

So ya, just email me back.

Elder Halpin

June 21, 2013 – Arrived in Singapore!

So we arrived safely. That flight was a torture cell. The food was awful. It was too cramped and since it was night they kept the lights off so I couldn’t read or mark my scriptures.

Anyway, President and Sister Mains are awesome. Singapore is awesome!

My new companion is Elder Berger, he’s awesome!

My assignment is the Matang area, the inlandish part of the city of Kuching, in East Malaysia.

Elder Halpin

 

Thursday, September 26, 2013

June 18, 2013 - Week 6 at the MTC

So everything went well. I received the package and such I also received the scriptures!

Thank you Mom for doing that! I had no idea you would go into the detail that you did!

The cookies were delicious!

I was able to weigh my stuff last night, turns out I have 90 lbs. of stuff. So i just have to balance it and I’ll be good.

I wasn’t able to go to the bookstore to pick up another calling card, so I have 500 minutes. It automatically takes off 130 every time you place a call so I should have 370 minutes. I’ll either call from SLC or LAX but probably not both because of the minute thing. That being said, I could call dad using some quarters and then he could call the phone booth and there wouldn’t be a limit right?  Anyway I’ll call using quarters first just because that way if you miss the call I won’t take a huge minute penalty.

 Elder Halpin
 

June 13, 2013 - Week 5 at the MTC

Yep I can get a phone card for like 5 bucks for like 467 minutes.

Can’t wait for the package!

The instructions you gave me seem to be working.

TRAVEL ITINERARY!!!!

We leave on the 18th Tuesday, at 3 pm. We take the "roadrunner train" or something such to SLC Airport. I guess it’s cheaper than the bus. We then catch AA flight 3652 direct to LAX at 8:25 PM. We arrive at LAX at 9:25 and have a 4 hour layover. We then leave at 1:15 AM on the 19th, on Cathay Pacific Airways flight 881 direct to Hong Kong. 18 hours and the international dateline later, we arrive in Hong Kong on the 20th at 7AM. We then catch CPA flight 691 direct to Singapore at 8:05AM. We arrive in Singapore at 11:45 AM that day.

Cool ya!?

Plan on a movie night Tuesday, I’ll call in the layover at LAX, no time anywhere else. I guess since you have long distance right? After the card runs low (I heard they take a lump sum of minutes every call), I’ll give you the payphone number and you can call me if I run out.

If I can I’ll also call in Singapore or Hong Kong or something.

LUGGAGE!

I get 2 checked bags going to Singapore, 50 lbs. each. However my carry on can only weigh 15 lbs.

Later today I’ll go weigh everything and if I have more than 115 lbs. of stuff, not including the stuff that I’ll carry on me (scriptures, suit, etc.), then I’ll have to either ditch it or send it home depending on the value and weight.

For example:

I won’t send any clothes home, apparently it’s impossible to find white shirts in Singapore and the "white" shirts in Malaysia are actually slightly blue.

Since the only plug in thing I have is the battery charger and since it can take 240 V I only need the plug adapter not the transformer. I might give that to somebody since its heavy and probably isn’t worth the shipping. Actually it maybe is. Email me back if you want it. I’ll check my email on Monday – we’re not doing anything that day, and I’ll either find someone or ship it depending etc.

I totally forgot! I need you to put like 700ish dollars on the card.

I need $200 for travel emergencies/luggage (luggage costs for not overweight luggage will be reimbursed in Singapore).and the other $500 for a bike. i don’t know yet how much a bike is, I’ll email you as soon as I know, and you can make the necessary adjustments. I can’t imagine that it actually costs $500 in Malaysia.

I will take the $200 in cash out of the ATM machine here, I realize there will be some fees but it’s the best I can think of.

Also help! I have totally forgotten my bank number!!!!! Please send it, maybe in a coded fashion or something, I only sort of remember it.

Email me with what you did and I will check on Monday.

 
Elder Halpin

Some pictures:


 


 Elder Rodriguez and I (better picture of me this time).
 
 

 Our MTC District
 With the flags of Malaysia and Singapore


 Elder Halpin with the Malaysian Flag
 
 

June 6, 2013 - Week 4 at the MTC


Wow, Jonathan must be having fun. Funny thing, our zone has 12 missionaries going to Madagascar. I’ll make sure and tell them to take their malaria pills.

And yes you can call while in the airport, I can either get a card here or you guys can send me one.

Dad: so my camera ate its batteries insanely fast so i purchased some rechargeable batteries and a charger at the bookstore here. Thing is I wasn’t thinking and bought a bunch of stuff right before we went to the temple. So not wanting to take a grocery bag in I unwrapped everything and shoved it in my pockets, not thinking I would need the directions. Bottom line I don’t want to wreck the batteries or charger, can you look up the directions online and email them to me? It’s a Sony Power Cycle 4 battery ni-mh AAA or AA. I have that adapter we got so you don’t need to worry about that.

I was going to send you guys a bunch of letters but realized I was out of stamps. Since we’re in the new place I can’t get stamps until Thursday. Ugh. So I’ll be sending you guys like 15 letters today. Still haven’t received your letter unfortunately.

The language is so weird, but also fun.  The language is coming along great, I have the basics mostly down, I can teach lessons without any notes and such. At this point it’s just vocab and the prefixes, suffixes and other things. The ixs are SUPER annoying. Basically it’s like English, you have active, passive, etc. The hard part is figuring out which to use while you’re using it in speech. Also some root words are already one thing while others are already others, so you have figure that in as well. In addition for some of the prefixes you drop the first letter of the root, so you also have to deal with that. There is also no "is, was, the, etc.". You also combine words to make others. For instance if i wanted to say "can you tell me what this scripture means?  It would go like this "Bolehkah(can the kah is for questions) komu(you) beritahu(tell, beri(give) tahu(know)) saya(I,me) apa(what) maksud(meaning) ini(this) tulisan suci(writings holy). "Bolehkah komu beritahu saya apa maksud ini tulisan suci?" At least I think.

Thanks Sister Ward for the encouragement, my brain has stopped melting at least a little bit, I no longer slur and stutter when I speak English, though my grammar and punctuation is totally shot to ribbons. How long did it take you before you could speak somewhat fluently to people?

I have been reading the Old Testament for the last week and just finished 2nd Samuel, I swear that if I ever read about how to sacrifice an animal again my brain will melt.  I have some really good scriptures that I found but I can’t remember them now because I don’t have my scriptures with me. Really I have learned a heaping ton of deep profound things since I have been here. I will include them in my last email next week, it’ll be cool.

One thing I do remember is that while I was waiting for my turn for an interview on Sunday I was reading hymns out of my mini hymn book and humming the tunes as I read "A Poor Wayfaring Man of Grief." I’ve always liked that song but never really read it. Very cool song. On top of that I realized the last verse has 2 meanings. First off, remember that he has now died. So now you can take it both literally, he realizes that he has been helping the savior all along and the savior calls to him. There is also a 2nd meaning, pay attention to the wording, see if you can find it. People who aren’t married or haven’t gone on missions don’t even try, you won’t find it.

Our progressing investigators are progressing! Finally after like 3 weeks of teaching and learning that were are teaching wrong and then doing it all over again, both Jeffrey and Rosalina are getting baptized!!!!! So ya, learning how to teach, plan and properly use study time is probably harder than the language. It’s actually counter intuitive. You would think that you would take a lesson say lesson 2, the plan of salvation, and then teach it asking the people to make commitments that have to do with that lesson or topic. Nope, all wrong, I’ve been teaching and planning wrong my whole life; no joke. You start with what you want people to take away from it, whether that’s a commitment to read and pray about the Book of Mormon or obey the word of wisdom; or in the case of teaching members what you want them to know or do better at. Once you do that you look at what you can teach them and what would move them toward baptism and then you integrate it together. Sort of kind of. That way when you teach about things it’s moving them in a direction not just feeding them useless information they might not understand or appreciate.

Out of time, the breakfast food is still literally 75% sugar (the only thing not sugar is the milk, water, oranges and bananas and the bagels and cream cheese), love you all, goodbye

Some pictures:
 
Elder Halpin
 





My MTC District

Elders: Thatcher, Sheranian, Halpin, Paul, Rodriguez and finally Hill.




My Companion Elder Rodriguez and I

(don’t look at my face, the sun was right in my eyes)